| Holy crap!! First off, you can kind of live with the shaking at about 40-45 mph. you can replace the bushings yourself later. As far as the fluid goes, is the white smoke coming out of the exhaust? The oil pan gasket is a weekend project too. The cylinder head gasket is a problem that might need dealt with sooner though. That's a job that's kind of a pain. Is there a garage near you that works on foreign cars? I'd try to steer clear of the dealership if at all possible and see if they can't do it cheaper. A second opinion couldn't hurt. | 
