GO to another dealer (if available) and tell them you need a new key. If thewy need the ESW number, or whatever, then you give it to them.
What exactly is faulty with the control unit?
<span style='color:green'>Nobody likes you.</span><img src='http://www.bmw-forums.com/forum/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif' border='0' alt='user posted image' />
<span style='color:green'>Are you experienced, little girl? I want to know what goes on in your little girl world.</span>
<span style='color:green'>I'm the man! I'm bad, I'm so bad I should be in detention. I'm the man!!!</span>