You got a new car so the dealer shouldn't charge anything for the initial settings.
You need them to do it. I use the drl's for safety, and the auto door locks, because I like the reaction I get from passengers when they hear the doors "click"
at about 5mph. The side view mirror drop down in reverse can also be custom set, but mine has a short in it so dealer has new one on order.
<span style='font-size:14pt;line-height:100%'><span style='font-size:8pt;line-height:100%'>Life is too short to be a passenger</span></span> '04 330i
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