Some dealers want $$, some don't.
Basically, you can get the lights programmed to flash when locking or unlocking as well as have the clown nose blink. The computer basically is programmed to act as if there is an alarm present even if it's not. I had this done on mine. A nice bonus is that doing this means that if you add the OEM alarm later, it is already activated and doesn't require another trip to the dealer.
I had this programmed at delivery. If you have not already had some key programming done or you are going in for some other type of service, many dealers will do this for no extra charge.
2004 325CiC Convertible; Silver Gray Paint, Gray Leather, Black Top, Sport Package, Premium Package, Xenons, heated seats, but too cheap to buy the nav...
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