Hello, I own a BMW 03 325i

. Anyway I have a red bulb under my rearview mirror, which I think it is called "clown nose" I am wondering how I can get it to blink, and how I can get my turn signals to light up when I lock the car. I called the dealer and asked him to tell me my features of the car. Which he did, and the car is prewired for the alarm, but I do not have it. So he told me that only way I can have it on is if I had the alarm. I know that, that is a lie because my friend has it on and he does not have an alarm. Does anybody know how to program the key for the light to come on and my turn signals when I lock the car?