Dude - chill!
It is your car - put what the fuck you like on it - if you ask people for opinions you wont always hear what you want to hear - know what I mean?
If you DO want my opinion though - and I'm more of a traditionalist - then I would have to say that I dont like either set of rims - the first set are just fugly and hurt my eyes trying to work out what bit is what (seriously) and the second set although they are better wont look right on a '94 318is - if you dont believe us then POLITELY ask someone to photoshop them onto a picture of your car
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Thought for the day: "d'uh"