You want ATF not MTF. BMW actually uses ATF in both its Auto and Manual transmission. I put reline MTF in first and had problems because the oil was too thick and was not warming up properly, I switched back to redline ATF and it works alot better. You do not need the special oil but a good quality oil is recommended(Redline).
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