Gear oil or atf.
Atf is the factory oil, is thinner, therefore easier for cold shifting.
Gear oil is good only if you race youre car constantly and you dont care for the transmission being hard to shift while cold.
Because e36 are not racecars from factory, i would suggest the red line atf. You will need two quarts, fill up till it overflows from the top plug.
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