im in the same boat too dawg.
but i think im gonna try to get a 98 or 99, im assuming they have less problems, or atleast one less, and thier steering wheels looks better than the old 4 spoke too.
the ODBI in the 95 3.0 is all good, but they had no TC in case oyu have to deal with some snow and had the BS plastic water pump, tho most may have been changed by now. 95s are more hardcore too, firmer suspension staggered wheel setup, all that got changed in the 3.2s i think, since 96, but im kinda new too, its just that ive been a M3 fanatic since day one.
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