You might be better off seeing if you could borrow the tool from someone at the forums.... (I would offer you mine, but one of the holes is slightly off, so there is a chance you could damage the pulley)
After you break it loose the first time, the "tool" will probably no longer be neccasary..... just give your 22mm wrench a really good wack everytime
Another option would be to see if you can throw a mechanic @ BMW a few bux to have him break it off for you. As long as its not too hot out (and not much stop and go) you should be fine to drive the car home with only the aux fan.