Well, it finally did me in and took it to an auto sparky for a look, the bulb holders were not earthing properly, but he discovered the real problem, it was the light switch itself. As it was not going into the park light position and going straight to the headlight position, it was not supplying the proper power needed to the park lights, thus blowing the bulbs out.
After a good going over by them, all is good now, but it cost me $95.00AUD to replace the switch, but better than having a complete meltdown..