BTW everyone, it's steptronic, not triptronic.
I've got the auo, unfortiunately. I want a manual but I didn't know better when i got my bimmer (yah, how couldn't I, well, I wan't into cars when I got mine)
The auto tranny is just strange. I have a funky toque converter where the locking mechanism locks sorta hard and sometimes decides not to lock until the revs match very well.
I also have a gear or two that SEEM to be stripped, although it could be that torque converter's locking mechanism disengaging and re-engaging again because it's weird. This does not happen constantly, it usually happens 3 times in QUICK sucession (thu thu thud) ONCE every 15-25 miles)
There has been some work done on my transmission because the mounting bolts are anodized and look new (not as much road grime on them as everything else). I don't know what has been done to it but it has obviously been dropped from the car. Dealership done or not, something has been done to it.
Other than the funky torque converter and a possible stripped gear on my tranny, I have no complaints except that it's an automatic

It's been going strong and handling my constant WOT (wide open throttle) (I stomp it ALL THE TIME) just fine...
If you don't drop it into gear when the RPM's are high and make sure enough fluid is in it, then it should last a long time. (Most every lube place and mechanic will say it's sealed and has lifetime lube. Untrue, it can very well be opened and flushed and you ought to change the fluid at a very minimum of every 100,000 miles. It's actually not that hard to do, it's just a bit messy)