Firstly, it is called "suppression" and its normally associated with older cars that have newer stereo systems in...
The de-froster is interfering with the stereo by emitting a signal which your shitty wiring is picking up (no offence)...this is then transferred into that high pitch whining you hear and the output is coming through the speakers in your rear parcel shelf...
There are solutions ranging from very expensive to free
Very expensive - re-wire the car stereo completely or fit an anti suppression unit to your stereo
Free - dont use the defroster
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