this is e46...you need e36.
Also, if it didn't work:
1. Check to make sure you have the right wires on the relay.
2. If you used a wire splice, make sure it worked. I used them at first and it did not actually power the relay. I went trough 3 relays before I figured that out, thinking they were the problem.
3. Make sure your ground connection is solid too.
<span style='color:gray'><span style='font-family:Courier'>1995 e36 3 Series RIP
1999 e46 3 Series BURN IN HELL
2000 MR-S Roadster= Current</span></span>