i got 4 answers...
1-dont bother with the paint idea, i have a feeling even if there is such a thing , it will be cracking and whatnot in no time
2- i have no experience with the uuc suspension stuff. but sounds like it could be expensive, either way if you want to control the amount of drop you want but still wanna get amazing performance, get a good set of coilovers, (i recommend ground control)
3-assuming the mouldings your talking about are the side trim ones, than just tell the dealership and they will be able to visually find them on the etk.. (i guess this really isnt an anwer is it
4-you cant hunt me down, because if you did id ban your ass.. hahaha :P